Child-Rearing Practices And Parenting Styles [8 Modern Way]

You will have a unique and completely unique approach to the child-rearing following which you raise or want to raise your child. People will love giving you tips and tricks. How to follow the advice of each consultant. Since childcare has its own path to follow. Then you should give up the habit of listening to everyone’s advice.

Below we will discuss some important issues on child-rearing 

Putting the baby to sleep

Many mothers put their baby to sleep by singing nonsense poems and songs which doesn’t make any sense. For example, I-I-Chand-Mama with a tip on the forehead of the child, or Agadum Bagdum Ghoradum Saje or Hattimatim team, they lay eggs in the field, their two horns, etc.

The first thing we need to do is say a loud prayer for the baby’s sleep that the baby hears, then he can be put to sleep by singing praises of Allah which will benefit the child, and God’s mercy will be showered on the child. Besides, small surahs and other doa from Quran can be recited to him. In this way one day it will be seen that he has memorized small suras and prayers.

Talking to the baby

You should also talk to a child who cannot speak yet. Even if he can’t speak, he can hear. The effect of what he will hear now will be felt in him. So the child should talk beautifully from Quran to Hadith.

Telling stories to children

In our country, grandparents tell various stories to their grandchildren. But they usually tell children stories of kings and queens, princesses, and prince monsters, with which there is no real connection. These are all fabricated stories, it is better not to tell these to children. We should stay away from this kind of fairy tale.

Buying children’s books

It’s not fair to tell ghost stories to children. Many parents buy children’s ghost story books which are not right at all. Children need to be kept away from these weird books. Many children’s books on Islamic education and general knowledge are available in the market today. Our children should buy such books and take them with them. Children learn more by watching. If we want our children to read books, then we have to read books in front of them.

Playing with the baby

Children’s mental and physical growth is enhanced through sports. So we have to give them a chance to play. Parents should play with their children, and buy them sports equipment according to their ability. There are many types of toys on the market today that help in the emotional growth of the baby. The question for most parents is, what kind of toys should I give to a child of any age?

There are also many parents who buy toys only when their child likes them. But maybe that toy has a suitable age written on it. They don’t want to accept that. After a while, the child loses interest and loses money. There’s the choking hazard. So parents should buy toys according to the age of the child. Another issue is not just keeping the baby in your lap but letting it mix with the dusty soil. They should be allowed to play with natural things.

Do not confine children in front of the TV

The mother of some of the children may be talking to someone on the phone or doing some work then leaves the TV and puts the child in front of him to keep him away from himself. Think of the baby as a disaster. Gradually the child became addicted to TV.

Since then the mother has been doing this simple task almost every day to save the baby from suffering whenever she gets a chance. He does not know how much damage he is doing to the baby. Nowadays parents are often intoxicated with stories by holding a video game in the hands of small children at home or in the car. Losing the opportunity to speak, children become antisocial and introverted.

Leaving the TV to feed the baby

Almost all mothers resort to a method of feeding the baby, which is to leave the TV in front of the baby and feed him with his eyes fixed on it. This should not be done because the food will not be of much use if you do not pay attention to the food. More harmful is when mothers do this by leaving Hindi Bangla dance songs in front of their children. Have we ever wondered how much harm we are doing to our own children?

Who will be the baby’s companion?

Children need companionship just as adults need companionship. Don’t just put him on an adult’s lap or on a stroller. If this is done, then he becomes one-sided, stubborn, does not like other children, does not want to mix with them, and is afraid. It does not develop his brain, he becomes antisocial. So she should be allowed to hang out with other kids.

Frequently Asked Questions [FAQ]

Questions: What are the child-rearing practices?

• Answer. The best approach for raising children depends on their individual personalities and needs. However, some common child-rearing practices include providing plenty of physical and emotional affection, establishing clear rules and boundaries, setting reasonable expectations, encouraging independence, and providing a stimulating environment.
  

Questions: What is the importance of child-rearing practices?

• Answer. Depending on the individual and their family context. However, some common themes that are often highlighted in regard to the importance of child-rearing practices include providing children with a sense of security and belonging, helping them to develop healthy emotional habits, and helping them to develop a strong sense of self-identity.

Questions: Which are the most successful child-rearing practices?

• Answer. It depends on the individual and their family’s specific needs and preferences. However, some popular child-rearing practices that may be successful for some families include establishing routines and schedules and providing ample opportunities for physical activity.

Questions: How do child-rearing practices affect the personality development of a child?

• Answer. Child-rearing practices can have a wide range of effects on the personality development of a child. Some practices, like encouraging independence and providing structure and discipline, can be beneficial in developing a strong sense of self-reliance and discipline. 

Questions: What is the difference between parenting and child-rearing?

• Answer. Parenting is providing care and guidance to a child, typically from birth to the child’s adulthood. Child-rearing is the process of raising a child.

Questions: What is meant by parenting style?

• Answer. There are many parenting styles, but the most common one is authoritative parenting. Authoritative parents set clear rules and expectations for their children, and enforce them with consistent discipline. 

Questions: How do you determine parenting styles?

• Answer. Some general tips that may be helpful include observing how your parents interacted with you and your siblings, paying attention to how they discipline their children, and evaluating how your parents manage stress in their lives.

Questions: Why is it important to study parenting styles?

• Answer. There are many reasons why it is important to study parenting styles. It can help you to better understand your own personality and how that might affect your parenting style. Also a better understanding of the different parenting styles that are out there and how best to adapt your own approach to fit with the child’s individual needs. 

Questions: What effect does parenting style have on children in school?

• Answer. Parenting style has a significant impact on children’s academic success in school. Parenting styles that are authoritative help children learn better while parenting styles that are permissive can lead to problems such as disobedience and poor academic performance. Additionally, parenting styles can also have an impact on how well children socialize with others.

Questions: What are the factors that influence parenting styles?

• Answer. Factors that influence parenting styles include the parents’ personalities, their relationship status, the child’s age, the child’s temperament, and the family’s culture.

At Our Thoughts 

Advice that really benefits you. And you will meet many people whose experience in child-rearing is proverbial. And statements of their experience are acceptable. So, whenever you hear something about this, the first thing with a clear conscience. Then accept whatever you find useful and useful. Feel free to leave out the rest.