Children, boys, young people, and old people all have one running machine in mind. This machine is always receiving input from the conscious and subconscious minds. It becomes an input process and outputs through human actions and attitudes.
As a result, some are generous, some are generous, some are grateful servants of Allah and some are misguided. My child is learning something. Every day he is constantly learning new ways. It is unthinkable that if I do not learn something, where will he learn to be? In fact, this idea is wrong, the surrounding environment, TV, radio, the behavior of the parents, everything is constantly collecting input.
So shouldn’t I be careful? Don’t I want my child to have more of the good stuff in mind? Don’t I want my child to be a good professional as well as a good Muslim? What I don’t want is for him to become a high-ranking official, to brighten the face of his parents, as well as to show the light of guidance to non-Muslims with his eloquent speeches on the religion with quotations from the Qur’an and Hadith. The relationship of the child guide is discussed below.
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Teach the child to be virtuous with everything
Teach your child to be kind to everyone and everything. Allah has given us control over this world and everything inside it in order to use it properly. Not to destroy him or to do injustice to his inner persons and objects. The world is full of destructive and destructive people.
Today they are behind all the destruction and destruction. Humans, animals, plants, the environment, buildings, roads, and human-owned resources are all victims of oppression, torture, and destruction at the hands of these destructive people today. Don’t make this group of people heavy anymore. Practice your child to live peacefully. To be enterprising for the welfare of the world and world humanity.
Make him friendly to the environment in which he lives. He seems to be an environmentalist. And trying to prevent all kinds of environmentally destructive initiatives. Take care that he never becomes unjust to the weak. No human being or any other animal other than a human being is weak. He never broke a branch of a tree. He should refrain from littering the streets. Even insects that are not harmful should never be disturbed by his hands.
Let shyness take root
Let shyness take root in your child’s mind while he is in the cradle. Although a child is innately shy through his instincts. But after birth, he is confronted with a number of situations during his upbringing that may weaken his shyness, or uproot it altogether. And gradually turned him into a shameless man.
Usually from the beginning of the second year, the feeling of feeling in your child starts to wake up. And over time, that is likely to increase. Encourage him not to expose himself to anyone else. And make sure that no one else, be it a parent or a sibling, ever puts themselves in front of the children. And when you are four years old, you have to adhere to this strictly. Never think that he is a small man. What does it mean to keep the body covered or open?
Remember, a child is affected by every event that happens in front of him even though he is a child. And those images that a child sees in his childhood, especially in the first year of his birth, are deeply imprinted on his conscious or subconscious imagination. Maybe the image that is being painted is not completely clear, but a vague haze. And this image later has a devastating effect on the child’s personality and his convictions and resolutions.
Don’t make it a slave to habit
Do not enslave the child to his habits. I mean, he adapted himself to a habit in such a way that it was impossible for him to be an exception. As you can see. Suppose your child does not fall asleep if he does not get up on his lap or swing. Or he can’t sleep if he doesn’t turn on the lights or if his parents are not present. Or he has become accustomed to eating food in a certain container.
Can’t take food in any other container. Or he has become accustomed to one type of food or one type of drink. No food comes out of his mouth. And so when he grows up out of habit in an unusual way of life and goes through his habitual life, his parents can’t stand it all. It was difficult for his parents to accept all his habits. Constantly change your child’s condition and habits.
And try to strengthen yourself in such a way that under no circumstances will you bow to the child’s habits. Rather help him get out of the captivity of his habit. Because, if he learns to resist his habit at this age, it will benefit him in old age. This quality will help him when he grows up to resist his habit. He will be able to deal with the situation. Will not be defeated by habit. When he gets a little older, keep reminding him that life is not always the same.
It is characterized by constant change. The human condition will not continue to flow at the same pace forever. So instead of trying to make a mess of yourself, you have to adapt to this change in life, isn’t that good for you?
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It is my responsibility to prevent this from happening to me and my family. It depends on the depth of my understanding and faith. However, as a balanced strategic part of the child’s character formation, Hollywood, Bollywood’s malnutrition, as well as some healthy food if not provided, this child will have a sense of what will happen in the future. When I reach the age of 50-60. Then no thinking can be done.
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